And just like that, it’s over. But really, what started at a little house on Main Street has just begun…
The opportunities for communities are as limitless as their imaginations and their ability to cooperate. South Carolina is a very traditional state but there is a call for some unconventional measures to combat problems that will not further our once great state, or nation.
Poor, “uneducated” sometimes single mothers are not destroying this country, but apathy toward them might. You don’t need a Harvard degree to raise a family and there are mothers out there who might not be able to read, but they could cook & sew & make a home; love their children, and their neighbor.
I’ve had the honor of being the person on the other side of the door at Chapman House Community Center for 20 months and some of the stories I heard were gut wrenching. I shared many a good cry in that place, holding a hand or two and most of all, listening. I believe that is what people really need, other than the obvious things like jobs and affordable healthcare, to be heard. The majority of the people I assisted told me they had never had to apply for food stamps before & they were ashamed to have to do it now, but I reassured them that this current “economic crisis” (for some) was not their fault. These are folks who lived within their means, didn’t live in houses they couldn’t afford & even had three months emergency savings! That didn’t stop employers from firing them when they were diagnosed with cancer, or factories from closing and moving overseas.
We’d already suffered that economic hardship in this area of the Upstate when Gerber Childrenswear closed their doors. Small stores closed after, then Hardee’s too. Homes fell into disrepair; heart attacks rose and many people were left literally holding on for dear life until Social Security and Medicare kicked in. Many didn’t make it. Now their children and grandchildren are struggling to survive and that’s part of how Chapman House came to be.
I still worry about my neighbors, but I’m moving on in a way that we can reach more people, right where they are. One of the biggest reasons people were not able to get the help they needed was lack of reliable transportation. In a state with more trucks than people it seems, it’s a shame someone cannot catch a ride to the next town but for whatever reason, people become trapped where they are and unable to rise above the square mile they walk.
If we as individuals can partner with organizations who are working to meet basic needs, and help each other, then we can help others in a way that will enable them to get the supports they need to climb out of this deep, dark hole dug by greed and corruption and littered with lives of loved ones. They cannot do it alone, just as you didn’t learn to take your first steps alone. You had others cheering you on, ready to catch you if you fell and they need and deserve the same.
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